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Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner – DivX Version (Normal Quality), iPod/iPhone Version
By tonymedina1966 | November 17, 2009
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IMDB rating: 7.70 Plot: Joey Drayton brings her fiance, Dr. John Prentice, home to sunny San Francisco to meet her affluent parents. Their liberal persuasions are now put to the test, for although the young man is an ideal choice (he’s highly and internationally respected in the medical field, and he’s impeccably mannered, handsome, well dressed and of a respectable California family), he’s black. The film, which covers one busy day in the Drayton home, is essentially a drawing-room comedy, a series of cross-conversations between the young doctor and the girl’s parents, and finally between all sets of parents and offspring. A simple dinner is extended to include the doctor’s parents, who fly up from Los Angeles for the evening, and the crusty but benevolent old Irish priest, a friend of the family. Thus, the title of the film . . . |
Available versions:
DivX Version (Normal Quality), iPod/iPhone Version
Actors: Tracy Spencer,Poitier Sidney,Kellaway Cecil,Glenn Roy,Martin D’Urville,Heaton Tom,Martin Skip,Drama,Romance,
Am I Right? Or Way Off?
This guy I fell in love with is an amazing guy, handsome, smart, stable, great cook, kind, accepting, supportive, everything!
Anyway we started off friends straight away we met and got on in the first 30 seconds like we had known eachother for years it was just so natural.
Anyway within a week or so we were having dinner together basically everynight, drinking together everynight, talking about everything everynight, laughing and just enjoying eachothers company. Anyway I never brang up the subject of being more than friends as I didnt want to risk losing what we already had.
Anyway I had 4 weeks off and decided to go back home to New South Wales. I was then working in Perth in Western Australia so I went home did my 4 weeks with family and realised that I was in love with this guy completely! So I convinced myself that if i just kept my distance from him the feelings would go away and id be able to get on with it so i moved to Tasmania for a month then realised the love for this guy is getting stronger so i packed my bags and took a job in Perth and flew all the way back and told him out of the blue that "I think I like you a little more than i should" His response "I dont feel the same we are just friends" But! A few weeks earlier I asked why he became so distant and he said something along the lines of "I guess its easier to let someone go than get hurt" That means?! People dont spend everynight together if they are just friends i dont do that with my best friends ever! And we were even close when i went back to NSW but then all of a sudden we started texting less and calling less. I dont think he is telling me the truth but what am i meant to say?
We hardly text or call at all anymore and i fear its because i went back to NSW and stayed there and he was the last to know i wasnt coming back but eventually i came back.
I want the truth How do i get it?
Is my theory right about spending so much time together?
Advice is what im after because this is tearing me apart.
I hate to say it, but this is a half-chance situation. I don’t think there is a "right" answer and no way of knowing how he’ll react. The important thing is that you proceed without expectations. Hope for the best but be willing to accept the worst. Easier said than done but it will make the situation much more comfortable.
When you moved, I suspect he told himself that there would never be a chance with you and that he should just try to move on, similar to what you described. It’s possible that he may not be able to reverse that feeling if that’s the case. You should be willing to accept that as a possibility before you approach him.
If I was on the guy end of the situation, I think the best way someone could approach me is to lay all of the above facts (from your original question) out on the table. A handwritten note may be a nice gesture unless you both feel more comfortable talking. Perhaps you can tell him that you sense a tension between you and ask if he’s willing to talk to you openly. If he does, he may have questions for you too. If he’s not willing to talk, then I think the situation needs time to cool down and he should be the one to reach out to you when and if he’s ready.
I wish you the best. I’ve been in a similar situation and I can appreciate the stress of feeling torn. Do what feels right and don’t second guess yourself!
dj_steel01 | Nov 15, 2009
go 4 broke and open up to him a little
thefcnman | Nov 15, 2009
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